Missymay wrote:I strongly disagree. Children have many more avenues of learning available to them then dogs do. Children can learn by example. Children can learn from situation they have never encountered. One can explain things to children.You could easily replace the word "dog" with child or children.
Having run a pre-school playgroup for many years, you can replace the word "dog" with "Child", we would often see children ignoring others when they didn't behave, the result, the child started to behave so he/she could join in. We used ignoring bad behaviour ourselves as long as no other child was being hurt and it was very successful in teach children how to behave in a group.
Many of these children, aged between 3 and 5 years old, had never heard the word "No", but had everything they wanted, if they didn't they would throw a tantrum, they soon learnt that tantrums didn't work, they were ignored and everyone carried on as if the child wasn't there.
One little girl I will never forget her tatrum, she would lie face down on the floor and using both her feet and hands would bang away at the floor screaming as she did it. This lasted for 20 minutes and we found it very difficult to ignore it, in fact we were holding each other back. The following day she started it again, it lasted 2 minutes and was never done again.
Once the tantrum stopped, both myself and the other ladies as well as the children, all encouraged her to join in with the play. Sometime later her mother told us that she never done this again at home either.
Yes there are other ways that children learn, but ignoring the bad behaviour is a very good way especially when the child is too young to reason with.